I am 21 and a
student like most of you…since childhood I was asked to study all the time by
my family.… my grandma often quoted this “padhoge likhoge banoge nawab kheloge
koodoge banoge kharab!!!” When we are
kids our parents tell us that these are
the foundation years so study hard else you'll be left behind your
classmates…..that feeling of being left behind motivated us and we studied
harder and harder….Personally I was really good at drawing and won a number of
accolades but had to leave it because of the pressure of studies rather I would
say parental pressure as it could hamper my position in class. Then a few more years
of study we finally reach CLASS 10th…boards boards boards….. every
second person horrifies us with the idea of board exams…everyone keeps telling
us to study as it is the career defining year… after the boards are over we
feel chalo bahut hui padhai but then again a sword is hanging on our neck...11th
n 12th are crucial years as they help us get admission in good
colleges. People say once you get through a good college, life becomes easy ,for
this good college life we study yet again….but as soon as we reach college we
realize all that was said was crap, because if we don't study in college and
do not maintain a good CGPA we won't get placed and hence remain
unemployed...even when employed we are in a continuous rat race where everybody wants to push us back, we
remain under a constant fear of getting kicked out……soooooo my question is when
does life get easy?????
Indian
universities are generally not listed on the global education rankings list and
if they do, they appear at very lower positions. Extra-curricular activities
matter and maximum Indian students don't pursue any of them because of the
pressure of studies created by this vicious system. The fear of scoring low in
exams is created by our parents ,due to which we stick to our studies and ignore our interests. Parents should realize there is much more than grades and many
professions than they think (Doctors, Engineers ,Chartered Accountants ,Lawyers).
Why cant our
parents accept us as Choreographers, Photographers, models, shoe designers, make-up
artists .
I don't intend to lessen the impact of education because I too believe
that education and knowledge stay with us forever and help us attain heights in
our life.
But is it the only way to climb the ladder of success??? Co-curricular is very important for overall development of any individual and therefore they should also be given value and attention.
Parents should try and help their children to acquire skills and expertise in the fields they have interest in, be it an academic or a non academic background.
Also the system of education in India like in some top notch universities especially Delhi University has not only created cut throat competition but also has led to suicidal circumstances for students. Colleges are coming up with cut off lists with 98 to 100 %. Isn't this unfair? Does education have this much value only? What should be a student's aim today? To score 100 percent? It is high time that we realize that education is about knowledge and not only about degrees.
It is not success we should run after but instead our goal should be to achieve the best of our capabilities and BE KNOWLEDGEABLE.
But is it the only way to climb the ladder of success??? Co-curricular is very important for overall development of any individual and therefore they should also be given value and attention.
Parents should try and help their children to acquire skills and expertise in the fields they have interest in, be it an academic or a non academic background.
Also the system of education in India like in some top notch universities especially Delhi University has not only created cut throat competition but also has led to suicidal circumstances for students. Colleges are coming up with cut off lists with 98 to 100 %. Isn't this unfair? Does education have this much value only? What should be a student's aim today? To score 100 percent? It is high time that we realize that education is about knowledge and not only about degrees.
It is not success we should run after but instead our goal should be to achieve the best of our capabilities and BE KNOWLEDGEABLE.
As the famous hindi dialogue says :
"Success ke peeche mat
bhago , kaabil bano, success toh jhak maarke aaygi"
Seriously yaar, v should do some thng...
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