A PINK REVOLUTION IS ABOUT TO BEGIN
Sunday, 24 May 2015
Friday, 6 March 2015
DO WE NEED TO CHANGE?
Hey
everyone,
Sorry for
the delay but was searching for something really powerful to come up with. And
it happened. Yesterday only I saw many of my facebook friends sharing a video
so I decided to watch it maybe just to break the shackles of boredom. Let me
tell you the video I am talking about is
the same that is doing rounds on the world wide web. And if by the slightest
chance you have no clue what I am talking about then please do watch this
documentary by bbc “INDIA’S DAUGHTER”.
16th
December 2012, a girl named Jyoti Singh ( to whom we referred as NIRBHAYA), almost a
doctor, decided to watch a movie with her friend and I guess that was her ONLY
mistake. Watching a movie with a friend (of the opposite sex) in India is a
crime. If a girl is found walking on the streets at night she will be
considered loose, a girl wearing a dress is considered available, a girl
hanging around with guys is surely a slut but a boy having multiple girlfriends
is still considered a DUDE. That’s the mindset of our society.
It took the government
merely days to put an Fir against the famous AIB roast but it took more than a
year to punish the accused of the nirbhaya rape case. And it’s not just about
this case but according to the reports there is a rape case in India every
20mins and most of them go unreported. Not just rapes but acid attacks,
domestic violence everything infuriates me and every second women in our
country. People say you gotta be the change you wish to see in the world.
But in a country like ours the victim is forced to live an isolated life coz
she has been touched by another man and nobody would marry her and the accused
is set free as if it’s his birth right
to rape women. Why do we not hear about men being raped or sexually
harassed? Has anyone ever thought that way? Nobody I believe. Then why
women? maybe because they are physically
weak, maybe that’s the part of our culture to suppress a woman for pleasure.
Women were and are still just considered as sex objects by majority of men in
our country not just the illiterate but also the most educated (which includes
the honourable defence lawyers of the rape case).
The aim of
this post is not to highlight the nirbhaya rape case as enough has already been
said about it in the last two years but its an urge to the masses to change
their way of thinking. Its all in your mind. People say girls should stop
wearing short dresses or revealing clothes but even a 2year old girl gets
raped in our country. Is this because
she was trying to seduce the man? No its
because she is a girl and she is meant to be treated like this. When a girl is
raped or harassed, she is asked to stay mum so that her family’s name does not
get hampered. But what about her inner being? Girls,we need to raise voice
against all the atrocities and sufferings and not choosing to go by the
monotony. We are not weak rather we are much stronger than the men around. Its just
we gotta prove them wrong.
It’s the
need of the hour to not just change the mindsets of the people but also raise
voice against the illogical system of our society. It’s either now or never.
Sunday, 11 January 2015
DILLI MERI JAAAN....!!!!!
DELHI....what do I say about this place.
Being born and brought up here , I have an obvious proclivity
towards this place. Delhi is a lunatic city. There is never a dull
moment and there is always something to see or do,even if it's simply watching the neighbour squabble with the sabzi-walla about the price of vegetables . People are out on the streets eating, working, and just generally loitering at all hours of the day and night. The air itself says something which can't be put down to words .It is a city that will pay you a million for your sweat and 50 cents for your soul.
Delhi is a city you'll either love or hate.
There's no middle way. It is the city
of the extremists whether you talk about
the people or the climate it is always poles apart. Since Delhi is a home to
people from every culture, background and state you will never find any
regional language dominating the other. You won't find people communicating in Hindi or English but
HINGLISH. Delhiites tend to stand out of the crowd because of their typical
DILLI slang .
Now, the
FOOD that defines this city . From aloo tikki to gol gappas , the street food
is the USP of Delhi. It is worth even the threat of Delhi belly .Moreover, the
excitement begins months before the big
fat Indian weddings and persists even longer. Also, the city never sleeps ! It
has something to offer to every set of people. However, there is no defined
boundary in the city ,but the food and culture bifurcates the place into two halves,
SOUTH DELHI AND NORTH DELHI. This contrast
is the highlight of this insane hub ,the way south has all the posh
bungalows ,extravagant malls and shopping hubs, north popularly called
"OLD DELHI" has chandni chowk-the oldest hub of shopping, the paranthe
wali galli and famous roadside food which is a major tourist attraction. Also
,the infrastructure makes people experience the best of both the worlds.
There is no end to my love for this crazy city kyunki
YEH DELHI HAI MERE YAAR.....
Wednesday, 17 December 2014
DEATH OF HUMANITY
DEATH OF HUMANITY
16 December 2014, I was driving to my
workplace and all I could hear on the radio
was people mourning about the
heinous incident that took place 2 years ago on the same date. As we all know
"THE NIRBHAYA RAPE CASE".
Two long years have passed by, I want to
ask u all: Do u see an effective change around? Do you feel safer? Has your
country become a better place to live in?
Personally, I have not witnessed much
change around me. Rather, the rape cases have increased a myriad number. The no.
of molestations and eve teasers has also multiplied. The terror in women all
over the country has reached the boiling point.
This day, that year, humanity was questioned
and now it has been killed FOREVER .
Yes, I am talking about the Peshawar
attack where the children went to school and never came back.
We've always believed that jingoism has led
to such brutal crimes, but this incident has proved that even terrorism has no
religion.
Only they would know what they have fetched
by killing those innocent souls. What memories will these young minds cherish
about their own home country?
A small boy when asked to narrate the
incident to a reporter, he said, "One day Inshallah, I am going to kill
these bastards for attacking us. I will shoot them down? What wrong have we
done?"
So what we conclude from the above episode.
What I see is that more than moaning about
the death of his fellow classmates, his blood
is boiling seeking vengeance. This is nothing but the harbinger of
terrorism in it deepest form.
As they say, SMALLEST COFFINS ARE THE HEAVIEST.
Friday, 5 December 2014
"Some Wounds Don't Heal"
Child abuse, not only a physical or sexual but an emotional harassment of a child , is the most recent crime that has taken a toll all over the world.
How
can a person with a sane
mind be so ruthless and
inhuman to a child? How can a person stoop so low as to not spare a child who is considered to be so pure, so godlike?
mind be so ruthless and
inhuman to a child? How can a person stoop so low as to not spare a child who is considered to be so pure, so godlike?
In
most countries especially India people were not and are still not aware of such
an act. Such cases are mostly suppressed by families because they generally involve relatives or friends
associated , and in some cases the family knowingly tries to avoid action because
of the societal pressure. Child abuse
can occur at home , or in the organisations, schools or communities
the child interacts with. There are four major categories of child abuse :
neglect , physical abuse , psychological or emotional abuse and sexual abuse.
Child abuse leads to lack of trust-building and can create relationship difficulties in
children . They get trouble regulating their emotions and tend to become an
abuser when they grow up because they have faced brutal situations in their
childhood.
It is high time we realize that this is the biggest offence that can be committed in this world where humanity still exists.
Children must be made aware to protect themselves and act in the required way. You can become aware of child abuse by recognizing these signs in your children like unexplained injuries , fear of going home, changes in eating, sleeping disorder, changes in school performance, inappropriate sexual behaviour . In the last decade, Bollywood movies like PAGE 3, SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE ,HIGHWAY highlighted this issue effectively leaving a marked influence on the audience.
Children must be made aware to protect themselves and act in the required way. You can become aware of child abuse by recognizing these signs in your children like unexplained injuries , fear of going home, changes in eating, sleeping disorder, changes in school performance, inappropriate sexual behaviour . In the last decade, Bollywood movies like PAGE 3, SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE ,HIGHWAY highlighted this issue effectively leaving a marked influence on the audience.
Also children going through this should be given special attention n
counselling so as to overcome their fears and live a happy n free-spirited
life.
In 1996, CHILDLINE INDIA FOUNDATION (CIF) launched CHILDLINE, the country's first toll-free tele-helpline for street children in distress.
CHILDLINE 1098 SERVICE is a service initiated by this foundation so as to help children in the need of the hour.
CHILDLINE 1098 SERVICE is a service initiated by this foundation so as to help children in the need of the hour.
Saturday, 29 November 2014
Online Shopping-A boon or a bane?
We are back with our new post and the thought seems to
be quiet perplexing.
If our ancestors were to wake up after their long
sleep of centuries, they would be amazed to see the world. The advancement in
science and technology has shrunk the world into a small city. With a click of
fingers we can communicate with our friends and relatives putting up a thousand
miles away from us. The world has become a rat race where everyone is trying to
move ahead of the other. With our oh-so-heavy schedules, we want everything at
our doorstep. It saves time, fuel ,energy and it is easy to search the
merchandise you want to buy .Therefore, online shopping proves to be the
ultimate solution. With the increasing workload and insatiable greed for
riches, nobody has the time to go out in the markets, search different shops
for different brands and shop. Online shopping proves to be a blessing in
disguise. It offers you an interesting and easy way to shop without wasting much
time, money and effort. And yes the best part is that it is available 24*7 to our
convenience. It not just provides a platform for shopping for oneself but also
gifting presents to our friends and relatives residing in different parts of
the world. It all began with electronics but now you can find everything online
ranging from books, gadgets, medicines to ties, suits, sarees. Thus, it stands
as a comprehensive shopping destination to one and all. With unreal discount
schemes and cash on delivery, online shopping attracts a large number of
people. And the result is an exponential increase in the number of customers
all across the world. Till now, online shopping seems to be utopian with no drawbacks
encountered.
But just like a coin,online shopping also has two sides. Now let's explore the other side.Being a shopaholic myself, I keep on ordering stuff online but unfortunately I rarely get satisfied with the products. Though most of the websites have speedy deliveries but they lack in achieving the quality standards. Most of the times we do not get what is shown in the websites . Moreover,the
refund policy is just namesake, there is no cash back as such but a lucrative scheme to bring more customers back to their portal.Moreover,the discounts offered are recovered in the name of shipping and handling charges leaving the customer with no benefit. When you are shopping online , unless you are purchasing from a well known e-retailer ,you really don't know who you are doing business with. Anybody can operate an e-store -but not everyone is honest and reputable.Online security concerns can certainly be an important element when selecting an e-retailer. Sometimes it is the kids who are ordering stuff so there is lack of credibility .I think there should be an age limit for direct access to such sites.
In the end, it's up to you to
decide if shopping online is in your best interests. It's likely that - for
some types of purchases - shopping online makes more sense than purchasing
locally, but that the opposite is true for others.
The fact that online shopping
is gaining importance simply means that consumers today have more choices
available to them than in past decades. Scrutinize your options carefully so
you can be sure that you're making sage, informed purchasing decisions that
meet your needs and that you feel comfortable with.
Friday, 25 July 2014
THE INDIAN EDUCATION SYSTEM
I am 21 and a
student like most of you…since childhood I was asked to study all the time by
my family.… my grandma often quoted this “padhoge likhoge banoge nawab kheloge
koodoge banoge kharab!!!” When we are
kids our parents tell us that these are
the foundation years so study hard else you'll be left behind your
classmates…..that feeling of being left behind motivated us and we studied
harder and harder….Personally I was really good at drawing and won a number of
accolades but had to leave it because of the pressure of studies rather I would
say parental pressure as it could hamper my position in class. Then a few more years
of study we finally reach CLASS 10th…boards boards boards….. every
second person horrifies us with the idea of board exams…everyone keeps telling
us to study as it is the career defining year… after the boards are over we
feel chalo bahut hui padhai but then again a sword is hanging on our neck...11th
n 12th are crucial years as they help us get admission in good
colleges. People say once you get through a good college, life becomes easy ,for
this good college life we study yet again….but as soon as we reach college we
realize all that was said was crap, because if we don't study in college and
do not maintain a good CGPA we won't get placed and hence remain
unemployed...even when employed we are in a continuous rat race where everybody wants to push us back, we
remain under a constant fear of getting kicked out……soooooo my question is when
does life get easy?????
Indian
universities are generally not listed on the global education rankings list and
if they do, they appear at very lower positions. Extra-curricular activities
matter and maximum Indian students don't pursue any of them because of the
pressure of studies created by this vicious system. The fear of scoring low in
exams is created by our parents ,due to which we stick to our studies and ignore our interests. Parents should realize there is much more than grades and many
professions than they think (Doctors, Engineers ,Chartered Accountants ,Lawyers).
Why cant our
parents accept us as Choreographers, Photographers, models, shoe designers, make-up
artists .
I don't intend to lessen the impact of education because I too believe
that education and knowledge stay with us forever and help us attain heights in
our life.
But is it the only way to climb the ladder of success??? Co-curricular is very important for overall development of any individual and therefore they should also be given value and attention.
Parents should try and help their children to acquire skills and expertise in the fields they have interest in, be it an academic or a non academic background.
Also the system of education in India like in some top notch universities especially Delhi University has not only created cut throat competition but also has led to suicidal circumstances for students. Colleges are coming up with cut off lists with 98 to 100 %. Isn't this unfair? Does education have this much value only? What should be a student's aim today? To score 100 percent? It is high time that we realize that education is about knowledge and not only about degrees.
It is not success we should run after but instead our goal should be to achieve the best of our capabilities and BE KNOWLEDGEABLE.
But is it the only way to climb the ladder of success??? Co-curricular is very important for overall development of any individual and therefore they should also be given value and attention.
Parents should try and help their children to acquire skills and expertise in the fields they have interest in, be it an academic or a non academic background.
Also the system of education in India like in some top notch universities especially Delhi University has not only created cut throat competition but also has led to suicidal circumstances for students. Colleges are coming up with cut off lists with 98 to 100 %. Isn't this unfair? Does education have this much value only? What should be a student's aim today? To score 100 percent? It is high time that we realize that education is about knowledge and not only about degrees.
It is not success we should run after but instead our goal should be to achieve the best of our capabilities and BE KNOWLEDGEABLE.
As the famous hindi dialogue says :
"Success ke peeche mat
bhago , kaabil bano, success toh jhak maarke aaygi"
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