RELATIONSHIP OR RELATIONSHIT???

RELATIONSHIP OR RELATIONSHIT

Hello everyone,

This is my first blog and I am really ecstatic since I always wanted to write blogs about so many things. And ironically when  I finally started off  I could not figure out what to write!!!

funny na... :p

And one fine day ,I was discussing with my friend about his relationship and then came the idea of this issue about relationships.

Relationship or Relationshit?

When I was listening to his problems then I thought why not call such relationships as relationshits ,why do most relationships end into a relationshit.

I think this is the most important part of any teenager's life. I am 21, not exactly a teenager but  each one of us has gone through, is going through or will go through this phase in our lives.....

Is it love or lust? Can love happen twice ?Are  love stories , fairy tales or suspense thrillers? Why cheat? Why not cheat?

These  are few questions that strike each one of us.

I am not a student of psychology or sociology so what I am putting forward to you may not be your point of view. It is just my perception and maybe thoda bahut experience!!!:P

The best part of the relationship is the initial phase,I think everyone would  agree to that.The guy treats the girl like a princess and the girl treats her boyfriend like a husband. We call each other shona, baby ,babu and what not!!

hahaha!!!

But when everything fades away, "cutie" becomes "kutti" and  "I love u baby"

changes to "I think its not working anymore" or "I need a break". But not to forget, some relations are meant to last forever so you can't deny that true love actually exists.

But there is one song that our generation can totally  relate to

"har kisi ko nahi milta yahan pyaar zindagi me"

After hundreds of break ups and patch ups, some relationships work and the rest may turn into "RELATIONSHITS".

But this is not true for every relationship. Some may turn out to be the so called "relationships for  life".

I just wanted to convey to the youngsters out there, don't get into relationships for the sake of it, or flaunting it on social networking sites, it is not a status symbol .Like teenagers now-a-days have status' like "ABC"FL-"for life". Don't get into peer pressure for such nasty stuff .If you find true love, move and groove with a slow pace.

As for the post break up phase, many youngsters tend to get onto the wrong path(which they consider as an isolation from the whole world).Many attempt suicides, get into drugs and alcohol, but why not take the less traveled road and take break ups as a learning experience and head towards a better life.U never know,it might help.

Also ,for the bachelors out there, enjoy your lives to the fullest coz                   meethi lagen ye azaadiaaan.....<3<3

P.S.

Those who are into relationships please don't get disheartened, this is just one side of the coin and we hope that each one of us goes through the other side of coin and the phase which is beautiful and worth it.