RELATIONSHIP
OR RELATIONSHIT
Hello everyone,
This is my first blog and I am really ecstatic since
I always wanted to write blogs about so many things. And ironically when I finally started off I could not figure out what to write!!!
funny na... :p
And one fine day ,I was discussing with my friend
about his relationship and then came the idea of this issue about
relationships.
Relationship or Relationshit?
When I was listening to his problems then I thought
why not call such relationships as relationshits ,why do most relationships end
into a relationshit.
I think this is the most important part of any
teenager's life. I am 21, not exactly a teenager but each one of us has gone through, is going
through or will go through this phase in our lives.....
Is it love or lust? Can love happen twice ?Are love stories , fairy tales or suspense thrillers?
Why cheat? Why not cheat?
These are few
questions that strike each one of us.
I am not a student of psychology or sociology so
what I am putting forward to you may not be your point of view. It is just my
perception and maybe thoda bahut
experience!!!:P
The best part of the relationship is the initial
phase,I think everyone would agree to
that.The guy treats the girl like a princess and the girl treats her boyfriend
like a husband. We call each other shona, baby ,babu and what not!!
hahaha!!!
But when everything fades away, "cutie"
becomes "kutti" and "I
love u baby"
changes to "I think its not working
anymore" or "I need a break". But not to forget, some relations
are meant to last forever so you can't deny that true love actually exists.
But there is one song that our generation can
totally relate to
"har kisi ko nahi milta yahan pyaar zindagi
me"
After hundreds of break ups and patch ups, some
relationships work and the rest may turn into "RELATIONSHITS".
But this is not true for every relationship. Some
may turn out to be the so called "relationships for life".
I just wanted to convey to the youngsters out there,
don't get into relationships for the sake of it, or flaunting it on social
networking sites, it is not a status symbol .Like teenagers now-a-days have
status' like "ABC"FL-"for life". Don't get into peer pressure for such
nasty stuff .If you find true love, move and groove with a slow pace.
As for the post break up phase, many youngsters tend
to get onto the wrong path(which they consider as an isolation from the whole
world).Many attempt suicides, get into drugs and alcohol, but why not take the
less traveled road and take break ups as a learning experience and head
towards a better life.U never know,it might help.
Also ,for the bachelors out there, enjoy your lives
to the fullest coz
meethi lagen ye azaadiaaan.....<3<3
P.S.
Those who are into relationships please don't get
disheartened, this is just one side of the coin and we hope that each one of us
goes through the other side of coin and the phase which is beautiful and worth it.
